BABY LOSS AWARENESS WEEK: FIVE COMMON FERTILITY QUESTIONS PEOPLE ASK AFTER PREGNANCY LOSS
People who experience pregnancy loss can be left with a host of unanswered questions about their fertility and chances of having a baby in the future.
From wondering why it happened and whether it could happen again, to knowing when it’s safe to start trying for another baby, experts say uncertainty about what comes next is extremely common.
During Baby Loss Awareness Week (9-15 October), TFP Fertility is helping to answer the common questions people have about their fertility following a loss.
The annual awareness week brings together bereavement charities to support and remember families affected by pregnancy and baby loss.
Dr Justin Chu, Medical Director at TFP Fertility, said: “Pregnancy loss can be incredibly difficult, and alongside the grief people experience, it can leave them worried about what it means for their chances of having a family in the future.
“Everyone’s circumstances are different, but experiencing a loss doesn’t necessarily mean there is an underlying fertility problem. It’s important to have access to clear information and know when further support or investigation may be appropriate.”
Here are Dr Chu’s responses to five questions fertility specialists are commonly asked following pregnancy loss:
1. Why did this happen?
Unfortunately, it isn’t always possible to identify a reason for a pregnancy loss. In many cases, particularly following an early miscarriage, it is a one-off event and does not mean you have done anything wrong or that you will be unable to have a successful pregnancy in future.
2. Does having a miscarriage mean I have fertility problems?
No, a miscarriage doesn’t automatically mean there is an issue with your fertility. Most women who experience a miscarriage go on to have a successful pregnancy in the future.
However, if losses happen repeatedly, there may be an underlying factor worth investigating, and your doctor can advise on whether further tests are appropriate.
3. Will it happen again?
It is completely understandable to worry about another loss, but most early miscarriages are one-off events, and the chances of a future successful pregnancy remain good.
Your individual circumstances and medical history matter, so anyone concerned about their own risk should speak to a healthcare professional rather than assuming their previous experience will repeat itself.
4. When can we start trying again?
There is no single right time. Following a miscarriage, you can generally start trying again once you are physically recovered and feel emotionally ready, unless your doctor or fertility consultant has advised you to wait.
For some people that may be relatively soon, while others will need much longer. Both are completely valid.
5. When should we have tests or seek specialist help?
If you have experienced recurrent miscarriages, a later pregnancy loss, or have other concerns about your fertility, speak to your GP or specialist about whether investigations may be appropriate.
Tests can sometimes identify factors that could be contributing to pregnancy loss, although it is important to recognise that a cause isn’t always found.
Dr Chu added: “There can be a huge amount to process after losing a pregnancy, and nobody should feel under pressure to immediately think about trying again.
“When you do feel ready, speak to your GP or fertility specialist if you have questions or concerns. Sometimes simply understanding what has happened and what your options are can make the next step feel a little less daunting.”
For more information about TFP Fertility, visit: https://tfp-fertility.com/en-gb