Research reveals parents in London are the strictest in the UK

According to new data children in the capital are given independence later than anywhere else in UK. Parents in London wait until their children are 14 to grant freedoms including having a social media account, wearing makeup, and using public transport alone.

The research, which was conducted amongst UK parents by name label manufacturer mynametags.com, found that 13 is the national average for these privileges.

This pattern continues throughout children’s teens, with parents banning their children from trying alcohol before their 16th birthday. Meanwhile, children in the rest of the UK are allowed this freedom at age 15.

The research also investigated the impact of mobile phones on modern children’s independence. Whilst 51% of parents in the UK feel more comfortable allowing their children independence outside of the home because they carry a phone, the vast majority of parents are afraid of the risks posed by unsupervised mobile use. In fact, online bullying (80%) and online predators (83%) are now the top risks feared by parents.

Online habits are also the most likely to lead to regret, with personal mobiles and social media access the top freedoms parents wish they had waited longer to allow. This is often due to pressure from other families, with one in six feeling pushed into granting independence earlier than they feel comfortable by other parents.

Yet, despite concerns about the risks involved, 75% of parents aim to give their children independence at the same age or younger than they did when they were a child.

Lars B. Andersen, Managing Director at mynametags.com, commented: “We support parents as they prepare their children for new milestones, from starting nursery as toddlers, to heading off to secondary school. So, we were interested to find out more about attitudes towards independence amongst UK families.

“The data shows that many parents opt to grant their children more freedom around the time they start secondary school. But, it’s clear this isn’t an easy decision, with families weighing up the risks and benefits, whilst also grappling with external pressures. And it’s no surprise, granting a child independence is one of the most challenging aspects of parenthood. But it’s also one of the most rewarding. We hope this research makes parents feel less alone as they embark on this journey, and offers some useful insight to help them make the right decision for their family.”